Miranda's Illicit Affairs And Encounters

It looks like some pay sites (no names mentioned) feel threatened so are now resorting to using our approach and ethos, whilst trying to say that men paying is the way forwards, when anyone will tell you that a desperate man under pressure tends to perform distinctly under par.   “we all know and love Miranda – Miranda by any other name is still Miranda and there will never be an illicit dating site to rival Loveisthebug – a cheap rip off is just that, particularly when its your credit card paying for it!!

So our advise is stay clear of them – they will only take your hard earned money for little value and premote loveisthebug. You can twitter,blogs,facebook,youtube and of course good old fashioned word of mouth.

I thought it was about time I “put pen to paper” in the hope that some or more of you may find interest in the ramblings of the King of the highway, the Prince of the boulevard, the Duke of the avant-garde. After all, the world is my backyard.
I shall begin with impact.

We are destroying our society and this is chiefly due to gender conflict. Men trying to retain control and Women trying to take control. This is not the way.

 We must become more aware of the differences between “Equality” and “The same”. We are not the same and the more we try, the more we are destroying our own chances of happiness. We must learn once more to respect one another, acknowledging and appreciating the different skills the other possesses. If we have identical skills the probability of a successful relationship is greatly reduced. Nature has given Men and Women different but complementary strengths and skills and the more we deny them and attempt to imitate others, the worse the situation will become. Rejoice in yourself. We exist to complement each other. Stop arguing about who is in charge and get on with living. Relearn the joy of companionship, a companion to walk the road of life, or a part of it. Be proud of your gender and flaunt it. Be proud of the opposite gender for with them as team mate, your life will be far more.
So, when you search for a relationship, search for a team mate, a lover, a friend, to walk with and damned be they whose selfishness and desire for conflict means they treat their opposites with distain. Ignore them and find someone to appreciate who appreciates you and your sex.

Loveisthebug member:  Thomas O Malley

Many of you ask does loveisthebug really work? Well as blog administrator I get to talk to alot of people on the site and hear their views and feature requests. We thought so you could see that free sites just like there counterpart pay sites do work, we will be publishing  members successes as we get them in.

August 2008

the site was great, I had several offers and have met someone through there, many thanks

Lorna1978

just a quick note to say thank you !!!  im seperated but did not want a man in my life full time , so looking after anothers husband ticked my box !!! i wanted to become a mistress and not a wife !!! have found a man thanks to you who has all i need and im sure his wife will find a happier husband now i am taking care of his needs x

thanks again

blonde 

 Hi readers,

 This month has been a frantic one in many ways. I returned from holiday truly sated on the flesh of delicious waiters (naughty, naughty Miranda!) and grateful was I for taking such a precious amount of me time as any mother will tell you that the first two weeks of July are the among the most packed of the year. End of year sports days, recitals, prize giving, school fairs and mums night outs mean that almost every day is invariably taken up with the more wholesome elements of my life.

I can’t complain to be honest, as I love the whirl and bustle of my children’s lives and feel such immense pride in their achievements. You know the mother who stands horribly competitively screaming at the side as her child attempts to win the egg and spoon – that would be me!! I must admit though to feeling a little sorry for one mother and counting my blessings for an ability to hold my liquor at this year’s Mums night out. This poor creature, who shall be named “Sally” for my columns purpose, is having some fairly serious marital difficulties and admitted after two or three too many glasses of blush to having had a very minor dalliance with the father of one of her daughters friends who is NOT married.

 Before I could even murmur “it happens to the best of us” the condemnation was all-consuming. This woman’s husband has neglected and ignored her for years and some may say it was inevitable that she would eventually need some sort of acknowledgement of her attractiveness from any source, but almost as soon as the words were out of her lips the judgemental looks and whispering began. Within days many of the “alpha” mummies had been alerted to her “treachery” and a systemic process of isolation began – she hasn’t been invited to any further days out, mummy gatherings or indeed anything within the “inner circle” of mummy hood. It is as though to those who live in a careful, fragile bubble of “family” her perceived betrayal to the cause, despite having its roots in a very genuine cry for help and her own immense guilt, is almost contagious to the other mummies in the group. They seemed afraid that merely by sharing her confession; they were sharing her guilt and were therefore guilty by association themselves. I obviously do not feel the same way – my indiscretions would make hers look like a childlike exploration should they be revealed and I too would be ostracised and alienated.

 I called her a couple of days ago and whilst I drew short of telling her the truth, I certainly let her know that many, many women in her position have done similar and she should perhaps spend some time reflecting on how she can improve her self-esteem if perennial infidelity is not something she wants to indulge in. I must admit though it made me think. As women we almost expect men to cheat and blame the woman involved for “causing” it, “homewrecker, man-eater, slut and bunny boiler” all being terms I have applied to women involved in infidelity. Men seem to get away with it based on their genetic make-up and yet I know that women are just as likely to cheat. Is it worse if a woman is unfaithful? I would love to know your thoughts.